To Farrah

Submitted by Mary (Ireland), Mar 5, 2008 at 19:22

Hi Farrah,

Im so so sorry to hear the sad news about your mother. you must be devastated. the loss of a loved one can leave you feeling numb but i think losing your mother is such a hard thing to go through and what youre going through right now you need as much support as you can get, his behaviour is so selfish and he is being completely unreasonable,

i just broke up with an algerian man, and to be honest he was the sweetest man i have ever met in my life. but the hardest to understand he was able to switch on and off his emotional feelings........i couldn't figure him out at all......I think your husband is being so so hurtful he should be there with you and he are married so you are his family too....this emergency to take the children home? why cant she do this or her husband why do they need him now when you are in more need of a husband to be with you and take care of you......

I hope he comes to his senses and realises what he is doing is so so wrong..............I think you need to talk to someone to give you some emotional support and to help you to deal with such a loss its very difficult thing to go through and even more difficult alone. you dont even have to tell your friends just someone neutral,to help make you stronger right now. .i have lost a family member and i was numb in shock i was surrounded by family and friends it didnt make it easier , but by him not contacting you he is making it harder for you to deal with...........shame on him.........

I hope you get the strength to do what is right for you. these situations are unhealthy., i know, i experienced it for a year..........................

good luck and my prayers will be with you............you do NOT deserve this

Mary

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