for Gina

Submitted by lani (United States), Mar 9, 2008 at 13:31

You seem to be in the dilemma some of us are in , when we have a long distance relationship with a foreigner. Many times, we will ask ourselves do they love us and it takes just one incident to happen and we go out of our minds. We start to think , if they love us and maybe it is just us over reacting because it did not meet our expectation of what we want out of this relationship.

Maybe, your bf did go and do as he said he would. There could be many things happening. Are you paying his way and filing the papers for him to come? If so, please think about your situation carefully because you said you are with for 6 months. That is a very short time for such a serious commitment as marriage. If not, you are lucky, but the relationship may not be so good because you need time to know him.

You would be the one to answer your question best. Just thought I just give you my opinion and I may not be right. Ok. Take care of yourself and stay safe.

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