am i stupid?

Submitted by feelinsad (United Kingdom), Mar 10, 2008 at 12:25

i met a morrocan 18mths ago. at 1st it was just afling but 3 mths later we fell 4 each there was no love declaration cos he said actions speak louder than words he is 32 i am 40 wit 4 kids he is separated wit 2 kids. he intro me 2 his friends and eventually islam,we used 2 go out but not any more. we hav taken things slowly.he comes home 5 nites out of 7. lately i hav bin helpin him out financially....passport is not an issue. but i hav caught him playin on internet an he refuses to take me out. we usually go shoppin and coffee these days.

i feel a bit used as he arranged a meet wit a girl on internet..dont ask how i found out its a long story. some parts which he said were true but other bits werent. he said he was doin it 4 a friend. but he denied knowledge of me to this girl an eventually told her we were sex buddies.he hasnt met her and said he was only playin...as he does on the internet when hes bored. what do i do?

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