moroccan cheater?

Submitted by baby (United Kingdom), Mar 10, 2008 at 13:25

i met a moroccan man, he is 32 sep with 2 kids. i am 40 wit 4 kids. at 1st it was just a fling but 3 months later we had feelings we neva told each other i love u he said actions speak louder than words. he had morals and eventually intro me to islam saying that it was my decision but he wld not stay wit a woman who wasnt muslim.

we make plans but r takin things slow. he used to take me out, now he doesnt. no reason just excuses (as far as i am concerned) lately i hav bin helpin him financially (passport not an issue) as he neva wanted me to get involved wit those things saying he neva wanted me to think that he was using me.

anyway i caught him out playin on the internet arranging a meet. he said it was 4 his mate but he denied knowledge of me to her an said eventually that i was just a sex buddy. i feel used but he seems quite genuine and complains about some of his friends deceits wit thier partners/wives. however everything we do is on his terms he comes home to me 5 outta 7 nites. takes me 4 coffee now an then but neva at his usual haunt (we used to) he needs money at the mo so i feel at his convenience he is not wrkg at the mo but had done...pls help?///

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