Hello Gina

Submitted by Straight_talk_Luigi (United States), Mar 10, 2008 at 20:14

Gina:

Thank you for getting back to me, I really appreciate it!

Ok, first of all, the whole Ukraine thing sounds suspicious to me. Why would he want to move there? You said for you and him, but why is that?

Second, in your other posts it sounds like you are dealing with a possessive man, whether he is for real or not. That is a concern, because that behavior rarely changes. If you continue on this man, I do expect he will be jealous and possessive of you much of time, espeically when you are around male friends. I would expect him to control your life and watch your every move. Do you really want to have to deal with that?

Third, he is either out of his mind or he wants your information to see if he can access your bank accounts.

What I would keep in mind is that scammers and liars are NOT pushovers, and are not afraid to get angry or confront you over issues, or even talk about how trust and honesty are important and how the scams they are doing are bad. I actually have questioned the authenticity of women (I knew they were fake from the start) I talked to on-line, and they tell me how rude I am being, especially if it's a question they can't answer.

Scammer or not, this guy is bad news. You don't demand someone else's password and account info. If you were to give that out to him, some sites wouldn't let him in or they may even place holds on your account for fraud protection, in which case neither of you could get in.

I would say it's time to find someone else.

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