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Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Mar 12, 2008 at 22:22

Ok, the passport isn't an issue.

In ANY type of relationship, if your partner is NOT coming home for 2 nights a week, then there is DEFINATELY something going on. You say you suspect the internet, and you are probably right. That's how they do it these days: meeting someone on line. The girl I dated a few years back, I never once worried about her having an affair with a co-worker or classmate, but I knew the internet would be a problem, and sure enough it was. One man every week for her.

Your situation actually happened to my neighbor: He was married to a woman and she was always gone on the weekends. After his mother finally talked some sense into him, he left and the real story came out: the girl was dating a guy who was just fresh out of prison. Nice choice of a man, huh? And he got her pregnant too.

If I were you, I would leave. The thing is, there is fine moral line, and once it gets crossed, it is bound to happen again. If you confront him on it, which you may want to do for your own peace of mind, he'll say how sorry he is and give you flowers and bla bla bla.

As a guy, most men aren't really sorry. Very few are, and they are bound to do it again. Some of them may not forsee it coming or plan it out, but one or way or another if a guy cheats on you once, he's bound to do it again.

I would really move onto someone else, and you deserve better.

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