To Very Confused

Submitted by Zella (United States), Mar 19, 2008 at 19:45

Do you have any family in the area? If you do, go home as fast as your feet can carry you. You are in the clinches of a man who was raised to not respect women but aside from that, he is also a sociopath.

Condom wrapper sticking to his shoe? A Pregnancy Test (how bizarre). Allowing a former girl friend and her friends to sleep over. Yes, he has beaten you and severely I might add. Perhaps not with his fist or a weapon but this man has beaten your spirit and self respect right to the bottom of the barrel.

On this web site whenever a person says something about Islam, Muslim Men, etc, he/she is accused of being bitter or not knowing anything about the culture, religion, etc. However, there are a few people who post that will be straightforward with you and give you sound advice.

You are being emotionally abused by a man who was raised in a culture and religion where women are property and nothing more. He met you when you were 15 years old. How convenient. He has a young, pretty wife who cleans, cooks and waits on him hand and foot. You have no rights and he will make very sure that you never have any rights. You come from a very proud culture and you need to go home.

Think about what you want to do with your life. Get an education. Education is power. You have power. Let me say one more thing about the way in which 99 out of 100 Muslim Men feel about western women. It makes no difference who our ancestors were or which countries our ancestors migrated from - if we live in the west, we are "loose", "wild", and have no morals. They also call us the "W" word. Their families feel the same way. "Love" is not a Muslim word.

These parasitic men tell western women they "love" them because the word has gotten around that we want "LOVE". They marry for procreation and nothing else. Why doesn't your boyfriend or whatever he is take you out any more? They don't socialize in public with their wives. Wives stay home and cook, clean, take care of the children, wash clothes every day and sometimes twice a day. Husbands go out in the streets with their male friends and if they have a bit of spare change, they find a prostitute.

How does the woman socialize? She can only socialize with other women. She must cover her head and chest when she leaves the house "out of respect to her husband" and be accompanied by a male family member. Is this the kind of life you want? Some of our grandmothers lived in the manner that women in Muslim countries live today. Do we have to live that way? No, honey, we don't and we won't. Thank God for your freedoms and don't ever let another person try to take them away.

Keep in touch and let us know how you are doing.

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