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Submitted by lana (United States), Mar 27, 2008 at 00:00

sorry my answer it's so late I've been busy with school

ok you have to understand something , the majority of Muslim women don't have sex till they get married.

for me yes I'm married , I got married when I was 21 and I'm 27, my husband is American muslim , we meet throught friends and we got married , and he couldn't believe that I was still a virgin till than night , it took me like 2 months just to get used to it but after that I starting exploring and enjoying it and it's great and my husband thinks all muslim african women are like me , I can't say that all Morrocan or American women are certain way , because people are different you know , we all women and we react the certain thngs differently . the fact that he's cheating on his wife as Muslim he s no good and he won't be good to you eitheir he's just using you for sex.

another thing, Arab women tend to tease their men and not giving any time or everytime to make him want her more . we didn't grow up around sex and if you do it's always in secret , so it makes it more intersting to us and mysterious . in our religion men and women are encouraged to practice intimacy and to please each other but it's forbidden for us to practice sodomy .other than that you re free to do what you want . I think your boyfreind is using you to do what he normally won't do with his wife or may be I have another explanation ,may be his wife expect him to be prefect in bed and to please her and that put to much pressure on him to perform , with a western girl he 's free to do what he want cause he's taking advantage of the fact that he 's in the west and that sex is freely practice . I hope i helped you with my answers let me know if you have any other ones.

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