To L

Submitted by SLS (United States), Mar 29, 2008 at 21:24

It seems like if he marry this virgin girl, he wants to keep you on a string. He wants to come see you when he wants to see you. You know L, I could deal with that, but just don't ask for my money. I will be 47 this summer. If my muslim friend would just be straight with me and let me know what his intentions are, then I could probably deal with him.

I caught him in a lie tonight. We met on Arabmatchmaking.com. He asked me to stop chatting now that I have found him. He would do the same. During the whole while we were chatting he told me an arab woman from canada was messenging in on our conversation (he tells me to make myself invisible to everyone else when I am online). He said he wasn't going to message her back. But as soon as we got offline with each other, I went to Arabmatchmaking.com, put in his online name and there he was online with her or someone. I broke in on him and told him now does he see why I don't trust or believe him. He say thats the reason I won't give him the money, I don't trust him (smile). I watch for everything. I may end up not going to Jordan. I do just want to meet him and that is all.

He lives with his sister, brother-in-law (cousin), and their children. So he say, I can call there any time and he answers and talk. But that doesn't mean anything, those women are so submissive to those men they probably don't care what they do. If I go, there is only so much cash I will carry on me, and I won't have a $1000 to give him. What would you advise on how to carry my money when I go to Jordan? I live in North Carolina. There are a lot of them moving here.

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