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Submitted by lana (United States), Mar 31, 2008 at 00:12

hi, hope you re doing ok, in ISLAM tatooing is totally forbidden no exception , you said he's muslim and hes having sex with you and you guys aren't married . he probably has a long time relationship and he s getting ready to marry her and bring ger to the US. THAT doesn't mean he doensn't have any love or affection or a strong bond with you , when you live with somebody for 3 years that's a long time , and it's hard to just walkaway from the relationship.

but , it looks like he s with you till he gets his future wife here, and plus he want to you to bring him to the airport and pick him up while he s enjoying his vacation with her . that ' not right and it's not fair . I'm Morrocan and I know how things works with us , this guy is using you for now , dump him and move on with yourlife , don't waste yourlife with him.

I know it's hard and you have feelings for him, but I' m advising you woman to woman. you talk and confront him and tell him in Islam you shouldn't be having sex and if you want me we should get married and if not get out of my life and see what he'gonna say. I know that's not the way you guys do it in the west but it works just fine , you wanna know where you at in a relationship, hope you understand me .

another thing, it's not ok for Moroccan men to cheat on his wife or girlfriend it's huge NO NO .

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