Similar situation

Submitted by Kelly (United States), Mar 31, 2008 at 09:39

You will find that he is seeing many other women online if you look. My Arab boyfriend told me he couldnt live without me I was his 7ayati, his moon his life his everything. We live far apart now so only have contact on the internet but that used to be daily. now it has been two weeks and I havent heard a word. He didnt even come online for my birthday.

now i will tell you why i think this has happened. I started questioning him about all the girls on his fl on facebook and myspace and a few other places. I asked y they got comments and me who he loved gets nothing. He got very angry and accused me of wanting it all. He told me i should be happy for his love and that he talks to me on the phone and video chat. He said they dont get that. Y cant you just be happy with what i give you. Ok welll I said goodbye in an email to him since he doesnt answer my messages anymore. He thinks he is teaching me a lesson. but he just lost the best thing he ever had.

These middle eastern men are arrogant and self obsorbed. They like us cause we are open to touching and yes sex. We dont hold back like the women of their culture. But there are a lot of women out there who think arab men are sexy and exotic. And i will tell you my man was oh so sexy and he was very courteous to me. But ultimatly He was the man and he made the rules. And i knew this going in but i didnt expect to find a web page with iver 600 girls who want him on it.

My advice...RUN QUICKLY FOR THE EXIT.

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