Hi Stella

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Mar 31, 2008 at 21:40

Hi there Stella!

Well, I read your post on the pre-nup agreement, and I do have to agree with Farrah: I think you may want to reconsider getting married if you don't trust this man.

It is a wise thing to have, but getting married is unlikely to erase any of the doubts you have. From time to time, there are married women on here who still aren't sure about thier man if something goes wrong, and actually, like the Pipes blog on the top page says, many of the problems start AFTER marriage.

I don't think anyone is judging you or Wendy on here, but a lot of us have been through this before. If you go somewhere else like Yahoo answers, facebook, myspace, or whatever there will be teens and people in their early 20's there telling you to go for it because it's love. Most of them haven't even been in a serious relationship before.

So, what I would say for myself is that I cannot in good conscience tell you to go on with this. These on-line international relationships just don't pan out and riddled with scams top to bottom. Moroccan men are just a tiny tip of the iceberg. It goes all over from them to Russian, Nigerian and Latino women. I know you've invested time, perhaps some money even. Well, that's true of many relationships, but the longer you are in such a relationship, the more investing you will be making and the harder it will be to leave.

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