My Wake UP Call (Moroccan Man)

Submitted by Susan (USA) (United States), Apr 5, 2008 at 12:32

Hi all,

I know you must all be so bored to tears reading my confusion about my Moroccan man. I'm feel so stupid and like an idiot. I finally got my wake up call...and his truest of true colors came bursting through.

Again he asked me to wire him for money, saying he was hurting. I said I'm sorry I have my own bills to pay....but this was not my wake up call.....I tried calling his home phone as I always do a couple of nights ago...it only rang and rang....then the next day he told me he unplugged the cable he was not in the mood to talk with me....ahemm, cause I said no about wiring him money....beautiful right...

then the next night as always I tried calling his home phone, again only ringing...(he told me to call him earlier that day when we had talked)....well his home phone was only ringing again..it was probably about 1am Moroccan time...so I called him cell phone and he answered and said hello Kelli..then he must have realized he called me by another name and says hellooooo sweetheart....

I couldn't believe what I heard..he was half asleep and called me by another females name the tries to save his ass by saying hello sweetheart, like I didn't hear what he said originally. I said what did you say, he goes I said hello sweetheart, right....well anyway we had a heated argument on the phone...he was still pissed off that I would not help him with money, he was rather direct about that..I was rather pissed off he called me Kelli, so we didn't resolve anything...I told him this was it, I'm done...I had found out in the past he gave his cell phone to another female...I forgive him for that, not this time..oh no...I'm so done with him. I told him never EVER call me at home, work, anywhere, ever again. He said FINE!

I'm so upset. This man asked me to marry him; to fly to Morocco to be his wife and stupid me believe all his crap. And I thought I was so cautious with him. I really thought he was in love with me...He always said we were heart to heart...and our pillow talk...I can't believe this...

I got my wake up call and I feel like the biggest moron in the world....totally upset. My stomach is in knots, my heart hurts and feel like I could throw up none stop. so lucky me...NOT! I'm determined I will heal from this mess. I really trusted him with all my heart...what an idiot I am.

hurting badly,

Susan

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