beware

Submitted by carolyn (United States), Apr 7, 2008 at 22:50

this my story, same thing, i met this guy yes im older, he caught my heart no matter what any one said, tonight i was talking with him, now we been talking for 6 months, never asked me for any thing, so i thought every one was wrong and i was right, tonight he said when you come will you bring papers to get married, so it took me this long to learn, i was waiting, ok this how it goes , ok he said i come there bring my papers from here, and then when i get there get his papaers, and then, for me to come back to america, and he would have to wait 6 to 8 months for he could come, which we know he wasnt coming, cause he said they would just call him and give him his visa, so see when i would get back here.

you know i wouldnt hear from him again. but now saying this, god i did fall in love, but tonight when he told me that i really told him off, so i say wait, he didnt ask for nothing till after 5 months.

so thats my story, its a shame that he did that to me but my fault too, cause i really believed him, so you just going to have to go with your gut feelings. how i did it begin? i started looking up like why men want to marry older women, found out, the about their laws, and good advice from yahoo answers, thats what helped the most , cause they will tell you the truth, good luck, and dont get hurt like me , but he didnt get any thing from me but took a lot of trust.

carolyn

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