some friendly advice needed...

Submitted by char (Ireland), Apr 8, 2008 at 02:08

hello all...my name's char..i'm 22 living in ireland...

after having my son last feb ..i went to turkey on a holiday...and yes, you guessed it, i fell head over heals for a guy there...

we spent almost my whole 2 weeks there together like we were in out own world...

when i came home we emailed...spoke on msn..and texted everyday and we still do...

we feel very strongly for each other and im going to stay with him for 4 weeks in june...which i'm really looking forward to...

my only worry is...he has said he wants to be engaged to me...but he doesnt care when we marry ..just want everyone to know i'm his girl...

i must admit..i was real excited at the thought of being engaged to him ..but in the back of my mind all im thinking is it just because he wants to come and live here...i mean he hasnt mentioned anything about it...but its still there in the back of my head...

he has told his friends about me and he says his mother knows about me..i'm not sure how true it is about his mother knowing but i do know he has told his friends..

he's muslim..but not a strict one...and he has not ever brought up religion with me and he would never expect me to convert...also my son...he loves him to bits...and doesnt care what religion he be either...

so do u think this is just a genuine purposal ..that he truly does have feeling for me..or has he pulled the wool over my eyes...

thank you

:)

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