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Submitted by lana (United States), Apr 11, 2008 at 19:28

hey, I'm glad you have the right attitude. Anyway if he's really serious about you both it'll show eventually, keep in mind that you have to check to see if he has a girlfriend that you don't know about , he may tell you it's ok to not live in Ireland now , because maybe deep down he knows that you re doubtful about him being with you for love,he's being careful and you will respond the same way.

ask him if we ever get married I want kids right way what do you think , tell me does he have a good job ,what kind, can he support you , you want to support him , make him feel that you depend on him financially and emotionally and that he s the center of your world and after that pull away and see his reaction ok , let me know what's going on.

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