To Milo

Submitted by Zella (United States), Apr 12, 2008 at 20:48

My advice is to do exactly what you know you need to do. He has no respect for you. His relationship with the younger man is clearly the straw that broke the camel's back. Put his belongings in a garbage bag, change the locks on the door and call INS. If he says one inappropriate word, call the police and send his butt back to Turkey. You deserve better.

If he had called me from the airport with the remark about it being difficult to love me, I would simply have said, "You won't have to try anymore. The relationship is over". In your case, he has chosen a younger man. The writing is on the wall, sister. Heed the words.

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