To Lana.....I'm curious about....please answer

Submitted by Susan (USA) (United States), Apr 13, 2008 at 11:36

Hi Lana,

I'm happy that a Moroccan lady is here on this website answering so many of the mysterious questions, I suppose I'm being sarcastic using the word 'mysterious' but so many of the unknowns we involved with Moroccan men are questioning in our hearts. Thank you for responding to each and all of our questions so candidly.

Even though I've broken off the relationship with the Moroccan man I was involved with, let me scream for 2 freaking years...arrggghh, what I wish I truly had paid attention to everything. so so much I ignored.. You're right my choice...stupid me...anyway Lana, my question to you is, how do you find out if they do have a Moroccan girlfriend. I've heard you say this a couple of times, but how would someone involved with a Moroccan man know if he did or did not have a girlfriend. How can one figure this out.

The man I was involved with said he was a virgin at 35, which I doubt. He knew way too much about making love, etc. Also he said he only had 1 Moroccan girlfriend ever. His family wanted him to marry a cousin in the Netherlands but he told me he said no cause he was not in love with her. Then as we disagreeing more and more toward the end (I suppose a blessing) he out of the blue said well I've had 3 Moroccan girlfriends....I'm thinking it jumped from 1 to 3,,,,,where was I? You know I didn't even ask how it jumped from 1 to 3 since I've known you cause then I was so fed up with his bullshit, I didn't even care. But sorry, I'm all over the place with my thoughts...but Lana, please tell everyone how you can find out if they do have another Moroccan girlfriend.

I'm really having a difficult time since I've parted...I feel like crying all the time, my heart is totally breaking, I keep going over every single word we've said to each other like a motion picture in my mind, I'm so friggin upset about all this, and the main person I'm upset at is myself...all along these red flags would pop up, I'd question things, but geeezz, I just trust people way wayyyyyyyy too much....My heart feels like it is in a million pieces. ....I want to heal cause this hurt just way too too much.

Thank you all for being a support system for me. When I read all this from various people..all these blogs, I know I'm not alone. I'm sure there are many hurting hearts on this page....

Wishing you all find your soul mate that treats you with dignity, respect and the love you deserve.

Susan

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