All LIES

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Apr 13, 2008 at 22:04

DON'T BELIEVE HIM!!

The reason he's saying he loves you is because you "helped" him out. He knows that if he can pull a sob job on you, you'll dish out even more. This woman he's seeing probably knows nothing about you.

When your man is taking money from another woman who isn't a relative (these days, it's not a good idea for that), it means trouble. LOTS of trouble. It doesn't surprise me at all that he would go after someone 20 years older than him. That's a very common theme with scams.

As far as his story about loving you, he doesn't love you, Bobo.

If he loved you, he wouldn't need to go behind your back to get money and keep secrets.
And come on! He's leaving you for someone who's 15-20 years your senior? Men just DON'T do that! There's NO WAY that happens geniunely, and yes, some women on here will argue that it SHOULD, but it DOESN'T.

Seriously ladies, whenever a guy gets money--GETS money from ANOTHER woman, there's a lot more going on than JUST friends, you can be certain of that.

I don't believe a SINGLE word your man has told you. I don't believe this woman is hoaxing him, I think it's the other way around, and she would be wise to leave him, because I have a feeling once he's got his fill of money, he's gone. And he'll feel about as guilty over it as taking a magnifying glass to anthill.

There's NO WAY your relationship with him or this other woman's relationship is based on love.

And Bobo, you're not the only one. I can relate entirely to how you feel, and the toughest part of these is breaking away.

I dated a woman who borrowed money from me for over a year and the entire time she was seeing other men. See, scammers don't work on just one person at a time, they'll go for several at once, and it's pretty clear that this happened here.

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