to susan

Submitted by lana (United States), Apr 13, 2008 at 22:21

hi susan, first do not call yourself stupid , we learn from our mistakes and it' only going to make you strong , ok. he's the loser , he lost you cause he's not gonna find somebody that care and love him as you do. second, it's really hard to know if he has a girlfriend or not , just like here, they can be cheat on you right in front of your eyes but you can't see it .

the worst part is the distance , you re far away , when you embark in a long distance relationship , it's hard to track his movements and what he s doing in everyday basis. but, some things you can pay attention to like , when you call him does he answer the phone all the time , does he enter chat rooms ,ask him for his email password , I know it's hard but just to see his reaction , if he has nothing to hide he would give to you if not he has somthing up his sleeve.

I totally doubt he was a virgin , he was saying that to impress you and show y how innocent he s, if he goes to chat rooms try to get talk to him as if you were somebody else. it's hard to tell knowing that you re far away. I know how hard for you going through a lie for 2 years , it must terrible for you , but remember you re better than him . you ll find somebody better away better with GOD will. take car Susan, let me know if you need any other info ok.

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