How come very few leave names or emails of these men?

Submitted by Not so trusting!!! (United States), Apr 14, 2008 at 02:13

I have been here reading posts on here for 3 days just looking for something.

So my strory is much like others! I kept getting myspace messages from this same guy for 2 months! I would reply with simple answers not saying much about my life! He would ask if I had a yahoo im. I told him no at the start!

I am 32 years old i have played the games, been cheated on, beat and mentally abused. So we can say that I am not a very trusting person. So for kicks just to see what more he had to say so I downloaded my yahoo im so that we could talk! I was in the hospital and he sent me a message on myspace from him. When i got home I was really bored and off work so i sent him my yahoo im.

We have talked almost everyday since the start of March! He has said to me many things that I have read that other moroccan men have said.. He told me that he was seeing a girl from America and she was to go there in Feb of this year and they were to marry! However they broke up and she is now with another man.. He said that she has tried to get back with him he was very open and honest with me about that.

I asked him what he told her and hes says" that if he cant trust her they he cant love her and the could be not more! So then i started reading and looking into what other women were going through and have been ever since. Because he too would like me to come to Morcco to meet him and his family!

However the difference from what i have read from others on here is that even though marriage is on his mind, he would never pressure me to marry him and he would not mention that unless i wanted to talk about it. So I did google searches and looked everywhere trying to find him on another site and trust me when i say everywhere he could possibly be talking to other women and I found nothing and i thought for sure that i would.

However I did find that he had 3 other myspaces other than the one he uses now. 2 had not been logged into since 2006 and the 3rd was i suppose the one that he has when he was with his ex. because he headline state Do you still want your myspace? And is says NO I dont go away! The date last logged in was in jan of this year when he says that him and his ex broke up! He wants to be in a relationship but I have yet to anwser him! I wanted to do my research about him and see if I could find anything.

Like others on here I am older, but not my much like some only 5 years. I can not have children because the hospital stay was from a partial hystectomy due to uterine cancer! I am catholic he is muslim. We have had discussions on all of these things. I bring this up over an over again. I have asked him bluntly why do you want to date me? Do you think I am going to end up marrying you and bringing you here?

He says no he does not need me to come here. He applied for a student visa a year and half ago so he could come the to US to Continue his education. We have discussed or diffrences in religon. We have discussed that i can not have children! He has spoke with my children over web cam on several occassions! I ask him after we have long discussions about these things every night do you still think we should date he says yes why not?

So I guess my questions are and I have 2! I am the one using cautions not trying to fall for bull and I cant not find anything one him? My second is everyone on here thinks there getting played or being used, how come more women are not sharing the names or email addresses of these guys so people like me can find some dirt and push on?

The guy is from Casablanca, his name is Nabil .B.( i dont want to put his last name out there like that! He uses black_rosegven or nabcas2008! of anyone has any dirt please let me know!

Thanks guys!!!!

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