For Leesa---About this talking to other women

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Apr 16, 2008 at 00:59

Hi Leesa, I just noticed your post, and I felt like I should address this:

The BIG question I have for you is: WHY do you think he's talking to other women? Are there gaps in the conversation, or maybe he's not around when you expect? Maybe he sets his mode to busy at odd hours of the night? Perhaps he even goes a few days without talking to you?

I don't think you are dumb when it comes to this kind of stuff, and the fact that you are questioning it puts ahead of a lot of others.

The last message you sent to me on here, you said you were losing hope in the situation as time wore on. One of the reasons you gave me was because he didn't have new pictures. The same thing happened to me with a Russian women. She pretended to live in town five miles from me, sent me an email saying she was lying in a very, please-dont-be-mad five year old kind of way, and then sent a flurry of pictures of herself and her family to try and prove her case.

About trying to find someone on myspace or facebook: It's sometimes hard to tell unless you are a member of those sites. Facebook especially is very guarded, as there are mostly high school students on there. And the search engines are less than reliable.

The Yahoo thing was a good idea too, but just because he rejected it doesn't mean he's legit. I actually did that once with my woman, but alas! She had caught me, as I was too slow to ask her if she'd want to meet and go out on a date as the other man. And I found out why: If you use different usernames on Yahoo messanger, and he adds both of your names to his list, each time you sign in or out, his messanger will say so at the same time.

And really, it doesn't take a genius to figure out somethings gone wrong when two people on your messanger sign in and out. The chances of that happening are astronomical.

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