To Leesa

Submitted by Susan(USA) (United States), Apr 17, 2008 at 12:25

Hi Leesa,

Hope things are going well with you. My emotions are like a roller coaster ride but I'm determined to get through it all in one piece. I miss certain things about him, but that is to be expected.

Unlike your Moroccan man, mine accepted other females in his hotmail messenger. I made up screen names to test him, he would go meet 'them" which was me. He also gave them him cell phone numbers. A friend of mine messaged him and he also gave her his cell phone number and wanting to start meeting her online. Beautiful isn't it.

But he was a sweet smooth talker and somehow he convinced me I was his only love. Crazy of me I admit. Then one night I logged on to hotmail and it was probably 2 or 3am Moroccan time, he had his messenger set on busy.....I messaged him, he ignored me, would not respond, then I questioned him the next day we spoke on the phone and he told me, reallyyyyy, my messenger was on...must have been someone at cybernet who stole my id...such a crock of crap, but again.........blinded by love me let it slide.....I just can't let anything slide any more and the writing has been on the wall a long time, I've just finally decided to see it for what it is. It is over for us and my heart will heal....gosh I've been tempted to call him, but I haven't.

But Leesa, it doesn't appear your man has done this stuff to you. But you seem suspicious? All I can say is follow your heart, their are truly some good Moroccan men out there. I know this lady I've talked to who is 20+ years older than her Moroccan man, they have been married 5 years and he just recently got his visa and he became a citizen of usa. They are so happy.......... I only wish my ex/man was like him, cause I'm so in love with him still......called life right...

Take care of your heart and I wish you the best.

Susan

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