Susan

Submitted by Leesa (United States), Apr 17, 2008 at 18:12

Susan, you should be really proud of yourself for what you are doing. I know it hurts! Trust me, I know. Don't call him. You will be right back in his web. As soon as you hear his voice, you'll be done for. Keep him out of your life because all he will do is cause you hearbreak. I know there is someone better out there for you. You are a sensible, realistic, mature, responsible, and caring person. There is someone that is going to treat you how you deserve to be treated.

No my man hasn't done any of those things to me as far as I know. Like I said, I can't find anything. The only reason I have suspicions is because he insists on coming here on a work visa, and it's a long story but it involves a lot of money.

If he would tell me to come to Morocco and marry him, I would do it in a heartbeat. But he doesn't want to do it that way. He said it takes too long (which is true) and costs much more money, and he would be out of work once he got here for a while, and I don't make enough money to support him. I guess the only upside to that is that if he ever really does get here, and we ever do become married (we talk about it all the time) I won't have the "is he using me for a greencard" issue like all the women that marry them over there and bring them to the states.

Anyway, I hope you are ok and getting through this. Take care.

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