To Leesa

Submitted by Susan (USA) (United States), Apr 21, 2008 at 11:47

Oh my Leesa,

My ex/Moroccan was identical to your man. I told him I wanted to go visit him but he "INSISTED" we save the money for the marriage and him coming to the USA. Not good it sounds Leesa. Absolutely my man was inconsistent. He'd say I'll call you then not, or lets meet on computer and not. Totally inconsistent and it drove me crazy as well.

Sometimes he'd just say I forgot or reallllllllly I don't remember. That was his famous line, really, I don't remember. Also about the money, I didn't send money monthly, and thank god I didn't send alot to him. But he was feeling more and more comfortable asking for the money. The very last time he asked for money, he actually demanded....stating, you're going to send me money to help me out......I was a little surprised by his boldness.

Leesa, please be careful and pay attention to his every move. Your man and my man sound just alike it is scary. I was talking to a well educated Moroccan man online last night, he said if you tell a Moroccan man that says he wants to marry you, that you only want to come to Morocco to live with him, see his reaction...if he tells you he only wants to come to the USA, he says you're most likely being scammed.

I don't know the answer for you, protect your heart, be careful, I know you love this man...but see, he doesn't even want you to come 'visit' him, think about that....my man said the VERY SAME THING TO YOU....don't you think that is odd.......really think about it please.

Good luck....I'm praying for you Leesa.

Susan

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