Thank You Lani

Submitted by lina (Canada), Apr 23, 2008 at 21:20

Hi Lani,

Living in a multicultural society has taught me to really appreciate the differences in cultures. Being exposed helps us open our minds and hearts to other ways of thinking. I think this is a gift and a great experience for everyone. Sexually speaking i have read the quran and some of the hadiths and having a good sexually bonding marriage is promoted and they do promote women to enjoy everything and in fact speak to the men about foreplay, learning control, pleasing their partner and respecting menses. The only taboo is anything anal.

If your man is refusing anything else then it is a personal preference and not a religious taboo. I hope you can discuss this with him and work it out as a couple. I have been reading a lot and talking with different people. I have decided to go ahead and marry my boyfriend . I hope things work out for you and your boyfriend as you sound like a great person who is dedicated to being positive. and making a good life. I hope to see you back here one day telling people your success story !!! I hope i will as well.

Wishing you love, health and laughter....Lina

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