May Marry Him

Submitted by sls (United States), May 5, 2008 at 01:21

I have submitted a comment and got some very good advice from some of the ladies and gentlemen. I done everything I was told to do trying to cross him up, to catch him in lies or whatever. If he is scamming me for a green card, he is good. He is constantly telling me he loves me. So much sometimes I tell him to stop. He knows he can't get money form me and he still wants to marry me.

I leave next week to go to Jordan on my vacation. I told him I would make my mind up after I spend time with him. He talks about marrying and then going to immigration to get the papers to bring back with me to start the process of getting him here in the US.

Is there anyone who can confirm this procedure, and if there is any money involved. He is working hard driving taxie from 6:00 am to 11:00 pm at night to get the money he needs. I chat with him every night before he goes to bed and he looks so tired from working so hard.

If anyone has any kind of advice to give me or warning signs to look for while I am there, please feel free to submit. I am reading and listening to everything you ladies say, but I want to believe that some of these men are good.

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