To sls re warning signs

Submitted by yasemin (Canada), May 6, 2008 at 19:56

SLS just please read my posts. Thing is, you won't know if you're a visa for him - the acting is superb, tears included. I'll just say here that as soon as i stepped off the plane in Istanbul he was almost literally dragging me to get all the official papers needed for the marriage. No courtship, no getting to know each other - conversations were on the bus on the way to get medicals and documents etc etc.

That was our beginning. Oh my he must really love me if he is rushing to make me his wife thought stupid me. WRONG. His explanation: his religion doesn't allow us being together unless we are married so it must happen right away. Oh he has strong morals this is a good thing i thought... WRONG. Anyway don't you have to meet an income requirement in the USA as his sponsor ? Maybe this will save your neck - the fact that you aren't working. Better read about your country's requirements and then tell this guy you can't sponsor him until you're finished training. See how fast he cools off.

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