re amanda's comment

Submitted by yasemin (Canada), May 12, 2008 at 19:09

Amanda is absolutely right - one year and still not telling his family is a slap in your face, and she's right when she says why he has not done this - he's more concerned with what his family thinks. And this means that he'll leave you in a flash if his family finds a woman for him.

And it won't matter if you marry him and have children together - he'll leave and disappear without even looking back.

Do you want to risk this, particularly if you have children together ? He hasn't told them because he knows they'll put a stop to it right away and he wants his cake while he can still eat it. You have an expiry date on your forehead - look closely and you'll see it.

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