for lisa

Submitted by lani (United States), May 13, 2008 at 13:49

I commend you for your mature sense of putting one and one together. Why be with someone who makes you feel as if you are not even existing. In Moroccan culture, the family is so important. For him to not be telling his parents about you is a that he may not want to be with you. Maybe he has someone else he wants to marry. You may just be someone he fits in for the time being. Sorry about that, but we have to know the hidden truths we hate to admit to.

Some of the foreigners who get a taste of the freedoms in the usa.............love it and want more. You said , he has lived in the states on his own. Well, I know many moroccan men who come to usa and love the life of sin and like I said.......freedoms. Who would not? By all means they are gaining there experiences and of course will maintain what they already brought with them.

Keep your great sense of knowing when to foldem and walking away while you are at the winning end. You are strong and intelligent. You will decide whether he is for you or not. I am just on the outside giving you advice that I hope will help you in some way positive. I feel for you. Take care and be happy.

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