Not the same man

Submitted by unknown (United Kingdom), May 16, 2008 at 20:49

Hello Elissa , i congratulate you on your future marriage..I am so happy for you and Simon.I know that my man is not the same one as yours as the man that i am in contact with is a lot older ,he also lives in Rabat,he has four sisters and lives with his mum.If you love one another and have faith and trust in each other then what is the rush to get rriarried.believe me i have been where you are now with my feelings .

Ohh no it would'nt happen to me ,like the others i read about on Daniel Pipes, love was special ,romantic,loving .He would'nt. ask for money.Always here every night on msn .

Two years down the line now and he goes out for two nights with no contact with me ,here i am sitting here for hours looking at a blank screen all the hours in the night goes by but no sight of my man.when he comes back in touch with me again ,he has been suffering with stress.

Now he is a poor man he needs money he tells me that i am hard and tough,and that no man could ever live with me because i am selfish,a ll these negative and hurtful words just because i don't agree to send him money, and keep the marriage until later to see if the relationship improves. Yes i am crazy about him but i don't let my heart rule my head . I truly hope your dreams come true Elissa , but be careful ,don't rush .

Love from unknown x

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