To Confused Susan- update

Submitted by Susan (USA) (United States), May 18, 2008 at 11:37

Hi Susan and all,

I've been away for a while, my oldest daughter passed away unexpectedly, has been quite devastating for me.

But I couldn't refuse to respond to this. First I'm going to proudly say I've had no contact with my exMoroccan man since early April 2008 and don't plan to ever again. I feel such pressure off my shoulders due to finally making a decision about him.

Confused Susan...my exMoroccan told me every story in the book and always would one way or another put the blame on me, that it was my fault, I was the liar, I was the one that made everything huge in our arguments, he would not take any responsibility at all. Also, stupid me bought him a computer for his home, but I refused to pay the monthly connections fee, he said he would, then he told me his service got turned off due to him not paying it...ha ha ha..

I bought this crap but refused to pay his bills, then I found him in cafes online, then on at HOME, hello..he scammed me good...and "I allowed this to go on".....I found out from an american female who married his best friend that he was also using his home computer cause she went over to his house with her hubby and used it to email family in usa.

I was one blind female....until he called me by the wrong name on the phone!! He is a player and I caught him in so much crap through our years talking, etc, but he was so good at talking his way out. I trust people way too much but then I finally get enough...but my scale of enough and crap need not take 2 1/2 years...lolol....thank god I can laugh at myself today regarding this ordeal with the Moroccan. He is also a musician, so good luck, cause mine started saying oh we are going out of town to new city, will you wire me money to help, oh we have rehearsal I won't be able to call, blah blah blah....and silly me fell for it all. So be careful and be two steps ahead of your Moroccan man!! They are smooth operators..

P.S. Hi Leesa, hope things are going great for you and keep your heart safe!

Good luck and protect your heart,

Susan (USA)

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