lost in time

Submitted by leesa (United States), May 19, 2008 at 18:31

The thing that stuck out most in your post was this....you are afraid to go meet him, which means you don't trust him and are afraid for your life if you go there. Not a good thing if you are planning to marry him!! If you think he could possible hurt you or even murder you for money in his country, what makes you think he won't do something in Canada if he only wants money? I feel that even after all the time you've spent talking to him, there is 0% trust, probably with good reason.

The other thing is you have caught him lying about talking to other women. And he doesn't have enough time for you anymore. And...he's showing up wearing new clothes and jewelry. Bottom line - he is talking to and getting money from other women......period.

Walk away from him and find someone that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

Why do they keep refusing him? That's not a good sign either....good luck to you, I hope you make the right decision and don't allow yourself to go through this anymore.

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