for lost in time

Submitted by lani (United States), May 21, 2008 at 21:06

He is definitely up to no good and more. Yes, more. He sounds like the King of Algeria to be living such a great life of comfort. You are providing him with what he needs as long as he says all the things you need to hear. Please take a good look at yourself and ask what it is you are getting out of this meaningless relationship?

I know all the words he says to you seems to make you have butterflies or increases your need to need him. Believe me, he is probably saying the same things, making others feel the same feelings, and making the same scam on the others as he is with you. Please walk away from this before he convinces you any further that he loves you. If it is love, it must be the lowest form of love. Like maybe zero.

You already found out he is chatting to others. Isn't that enough to break your heart and make you walk out of his life now? What are you waiting for? Let him find a job and stop all payments to him. You are not rich......I assume. Take care of your needs and tell him to do the same. Stop everything you are doing for him and don't meet him on the internet any more. Give him a taste of his own medicine and make sure he gets a big dose of it. Leave him while you are here telling us this part of your story and you are safe. Besides that, there are other men in Canada who will love you more than this guy.

Be courageous, powerful, intelligent and confident. Walk away! He is laughing at you everytime you go to western union and send him his money. How do you know.....maybe he picks the money up with his gf or wife he has there. And you can figure out the rest of the story. I am not being mean ..I just don't want you to waste your time and to take care of you first.

Take care my dear. Stay safe and make yourself happy.

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