Hi Amanda

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), May 25, 2008 at 23:36

Just be aware that you are dating someone of a different culture, even he is not a Muslim.

If you're not sure about this man, if these posts scare you, then I would not rush into sex. Because I promise if you do that and things don't work out, you'll have a hard time breaking off the relationship. It also will make you more vulernable.

I realize that may be difficult if you are recently divorced, but it's important to keep your head. His preferences may still be on the conservative side.

The red flags are

1) If he gets offended when you ask personal questions

2) He asks or implies he needs money

3) He's not sure about you.

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