Amanda

Submitted by Jessie (United States), Jun 3, 2008 at 11:49

... What do you think? how could you even consider splitting a family up? no, there is an extremely THIN chance he'll leave his wife for you, and if he does, the chances are he'll leave you for someone else later down the line. My man is also turkish and we plan to marry, but we were both SINGLE when we met. If you love that guy that much you'd cut ties with him and let him get on with his life with his own family.

Do you REALLY want that kid to grow up without a father and hate you for destroying a marriage? if my boyfriend had a child i'd think not only of our relationship but whats best for that child. I hope you do the right thing. There is way too much "me first" in this world.

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