Should you be concerned? Typical male nonsense

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Jun 9, 2008 at 21:18

Hi there! Thanks for sharing!

Ok, so you're wondering if this is a cause for concern. Yes, it is.

Look, I am a guy, and for him to say he's going to talk to other people about love? That could only the surface of what's going to happen. I would bet on it.

I dated a woman once I met on-line from the USA, and after dating for three months and then kinda being together for a few more, she eventually told me she felt the need to kiss other guys. I asked her what that meant, and she said that was how she could "best" explain it.

I thought she had retracted the idea, until I caught her signed up for several dating sites.

At the very end of our relationship, I found out what this meant to her was having sex---online and eventually in real life, with other men.

Listen, this behavior is unacceptable, and do not allow anyone, even people on here or this so-called Moroccan man, to use the culture excuse. It's inaccurate, wrong, and about as dumb as saying "I'm a guy, therefore I do stupid things."

Working late? Yeah, right. Listen, your man is clearly up to no good. I'm not quite sure why he said he needed to talk to other women, but it's not good.

I know you've invested a lot in this, and my heart goes out to you, but if I were in your shoes, I wouldn't waste any more time with this man. He's just a cheater, and he's trying to soften the blow or maybe even get your approval to mess around.

It's only going to worse from here on out, so please, summon the strength and sense to leave him. I know it's not what you want to hear, and I'm not going to pretend this won't hurt, but he'll drag you around like this forever if you let him.

You seem like a normal lady who just wants to be happy, and you clearly already feel torn. But believe it or not, this is just the tip of the iceberg.

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