reply to Zella and Luigi

Submitted by lilly (Canada), Jun 13, 2008 at 21:51

all i can say is wow. Thanky ou both Zella and Luigi for your prompt replies. I will try to include responses to both in one posting....:) I am not a whole lot older than this man...just barely 5 yrs...I can tell you Luigi I didn't meet him on the internet...I met him while I was in Maroc. He is not after me for children that's for sure because I have explained over and over to this man that "children inchallah" is not an option because i am inable to have anymore....i have explained this pretty thoroughly infact at great length and with much emotion.

I continue to ask very very very probing questions and he adores them and me for being so interested. I have met on cam one of his friends, one brother and one cousin. As well I met another of his friends and his little girl at the same time I met this man. The family does not appear to need money as is the case with alot of situations. My friends moroccan husband has just arrived here to this country with the visa taking 6 months and basically hassle free.

Although i can tell you i witnessed the "immature arrested development " in him while I was there...which i found endearing...but he isn't my husband :) I have done a lot of studying of the culture and find the opposite to be true regarding moroccan women and their status in the family...and he is definately not opposed to hard work, preferring that he take care of me financially, emotionally, physically like a soldier while i am his princess....there's endearing for you huh?

He is always telling me he wants to help me if i am washing clothes, cooking, cleaning........seems soo hard that he would remember all the little tiny itsy bitsy details of my life if he was scamming me....He would deserve an Oscar !!!! I don't know where in the world he would have the time to be scamming me either...although i am open to hearing the possibilities otherwise i wouldn't be here....he works all morning till lunch...then till early evening ...and teaches at the gym afterward. i talk to him in between and have not caught him in any deception at all.

Thank you for your words of care, I appreciate them very much...I guess I thought being beautiful and intelligent and worldly would be enough to trap a snake....perhaps it was, but perhaps that is not what he wants in the end ....oooooooohhhhh can i ever hear the YEAH BUT'S........ hee hee...

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