To Farrah

Submitted by Leigh (United States), Jun 17, 2008 at 01:02

My heart and prayers are with you in your marriage. That he will see the light that shines in you, because you are a good woman. I think we all are on this site; wanting to love and be loved.

There is a 3 year difference in our age, I am older. He has been married before, I have not. He is discussing now with his Uncle, money to start a business here. Many of them own stores, gas stations, and resturants in my town. His heart is set on buying a business. He wants me to leave my job and help with the business, but I told him no. After reading these stories on this site, I don't think I could trust him to alter my life to the point of giving up my job.

We took lots of photos and was going to have a party after the marriage, but with the fact that I never been married, I had to get approval from my Father. That took a while and I had only 8 days to stay because of returning to work. Two of his friends and a cousin know about me and our marriage. His family know he is coming to the US (if approved), but they don't know about me. I do love him, I pray that he is honest about his love for me, and everything work out, but I will prepare myself as you say. Keep me in your prayer as I do the same for you.

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