To Christine

Submitted by Leigh (United States), Jun 19, 2008 at 01:29

Hi Christine, He is not my bf, he is my husband for right now. I have not sent the papers to immigration yet to start the process. I may send them soon, because I want to see him so bad. I just don't want to end up broken hearted, if he leaves me. I do love him and he claim to love me. He has began to ask questions of why I have not submitted the papers. Our last chat on the inernet was about them.

He had mentioned a few times about going to another country also, and has asked if I ever thought about it. I told him no, not to live. The rush marriage and lack of intimacy that I am use to, is whats making me skeptical. I, personally don't think you get to know anyone until you actually live with them. That happened to me here in the U.S. The man flipped on me and turned into another person, and I grew up with him. It is a different way to get a greencard. Have you ever heard of it before?

My husband is working two jobs saving money waiting to hear from immigration.

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