NEVER EVER think this, ladies, As I guy, I MUST warn you:

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Jun 22, 2008 at 20:19

If you don't get anything else off this site, at least KNOW this:

Just because a man says he is religious doesn't mean he won't have sex with you or sleep around.

Look, I'm a fairly religious person, and I screw up. A lot. In college, I knew that IF I wanted an easy lay, a liberal Western woman was the way to to go.

This is the same thing that some religious Muslim men think. Just because they sleep with you, doesn't mean they've changed or are going to change! Muslim immigrants in Norway and Sweden do this ALL the time! It IS a double standard, whether I'm doing it or they are doing it, and you have to be able to understand that, or your heart is going to get run over by a freight train!

It's probably pretty fair to say that women are more emotional men. This really isn't surprising, considering their brain biology. So, of course, premartial sex is going to have a drastic effect on you, and yes, I've heard people rationalize it say it won't affect them, but I can clearly tell it does.

I don't generally sleep with men that I am not involved in a serious relationship with. I don't know what happened, I just got taken in by his charm and carried away. So when I did, I felt like I should build a relationship with him.

That's exactly why I thought I had to stay with my myspace woman, despite all the angry 3 am phone calls, the lying, the hanging out with other guys. It's really hard to let go of someone once you sleep with them. If you do and thinks don't work out, you're flattened. It doesn't surprise me that this is hard for you, but I commend you for doing the right thing. The biggest fear I have about the women on here is that they won't be able to stand their ground and leave. A lot of these men are very persistent and call and e-mail a lot. Heck, my Grandma is worried that in 2 years my myspace woman will get a hold of me and give out some sob story about another boyfriend or maybe even with kids and try and rope me again.

That's how liars, scammers and cheats operate. They ALL come from the same thread, and that is

selfishness

absence of truth

But you know they wouldn't treat a Muslim woman that way

ONLY as long as she's "enough" of a Muslim for him. First and second generation Muslim females who are more secular are just as likely to be targeted for sex crimes in inner-city Europe as white females are. It's not really a race issue (I mean, if they see a white blonde with blue eyes, the word sl-- comes to mind in many cases), but really, if you don't wear a veil, your fair game.

I was reading on-line an excerpt from a Swedish newspaper about a man named Hamid who raped Swedish girls. When asked if he would marry one, he said he'd never marry a Swedish girl, but someone from his own culture, when he was ready, because she would be worthy to him, a Swedish woman wouldn't be.

Another article I read focused on Somali immigrants in Norway. When a group of men, all under 35, were asked about Norwegian women, they kind of look at each other and laughed. One quipped "I know they are alright in bed."

So you see, many of these men have no respect for you or our society. Of course, you can thank the left in the West for not helping them assimliate at all. I mean, there's Somalis who've lived in Sweden for over 20 years now and don't know a word of Swedish.

They just expect to be able to bring in conservative, religious from the Muslim world and expect them to conform on their own because Western society is so great that EVERYONE wants it, when the reality is if they had their way, sharia law would be in place and women like many of the ones on here who think they've found love, would be part of a harem and a sex toy. Some wouldn't even realize it.

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