For Amy 2

Submitted by Zella (United States), Jun 23, 2008 at 21:04

Amy, I think you are trying to make sense out of a non-sensical situation. You had a fling with a man while you were on holiday. You became infatuated and all he was looking for was another "sugar mama." You never had a relationship with him. You never will have a relationship with him. You are a woman. You have power. Learn from this situation and move on with your life.

More importantly, it's time to ask yourself why you are willing to relinquish your self respect and become emotionally involved with someone who makes a career out of using and abusing women. Another question you might want to ask yourself is, "Why am I so desperate for a man that I will spend my hard-earned money, time, and energy on someone who is without question a sociopath?"

Ok, so you had a fling while on holiday. You should get down on your hands and knees and thank God that you didn't end up with some serious medical problem. In the future if you have extra money, donate it to a program that provides basic needs to women, children, and the elderly in North African countires. Forget the men. They don't want you or any other western woman.

Yes, I am blunt but there does come a time in life when Gods' children need to understand that life is very short and there is no point in wasting precious time in situations that cannot possibly have a happy ending.

Trying to make sense out of a non-sensical situation is a waste of good time and emotional energy. Unless a relationship of any kind has significance, purpose, and meaning, it's not a relationship. It's merely a figment of one's imagination.

I wish you well.

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