Susan

Submitted by leesa (United States), Jun 24, 2008 at 17:06

Hi Susan, the reason I have stuck it out for so long is because I haven't been able to prove anything. There are so many little things that cause me to question him, but that's it....I can only question. I haven't found anything on him online, no one that knows him, he has never messed up and called me the wrong name, nothing like that.

But there are so many "little things" that happen, or that he says that I feel in my gut need to be questioned or he isn't being honest with me. Two nights ago he was so distracted online and the whole conversation felt like he was scheduling times to talk online, and we have always talked at the same time, since I met him. But now he is trying to change it.

He wanted to talk to me online during the day so I did, and we had a nice conversation but then that night was when he was sheduling me in....or so I felt. We haven't talked much lately online because I am working a 2nd job and other nights he is tired. But the last 3 or 4 conversations we've had at night have been crap......and he never goes to the cafe to use cam, I think I've seen him "maybe one" in the past month or so. Chances are he has a new online "friend"...maybe she is helping his cause too, I don't really know anymore...........

I think I'm just going to stay offline for a little while and play it by ear. I need a break, and I'm just really tired of being frustrated all the time. It's really becoming not worth it to me anymore.

Good for you for blocking him!!! I am following close behind you....:)

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