Criticism

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Jun 29, 2008 at 23:59

i see many men using women for sex and money - but not for visas, they love their country.

That's an inaccurate, biased statement if I've ever heard one. If it's Russian women you refer to, it could very well be the other way around, and I still think those men need to get on here and talk to me!

But you do get the minority who do marry women for visas.

Depends on what you mean by minority, Kelly. I'd say many if not most of the men who do this have some sinister purpose when it's with Western women.

Actually, Kelly, I just don't approve of your decision to raise your children as Muslims, and it seems that I'm the only poster on here who's mentioned other scams outside the realm of Muslim men.

Naturally, since you'd only defend or care about your man's culture and religion, or your own, I could go on all day about Nigerian or Russian women, just as long as I didn't criticize ones who are with other (surprise) Egyptian men.

Of course, if your relationship was as grand as you make it out to be, you wouldn't need to get your jabs in at me every time someone comes on asking for positive advice. You'd just laugh it off or ignore it altogether.

Better yet, you wouldn't even be on here.

Kelly, I really think you have some insecurity issues, unless your husband is putting you up to this, which I highly doubt. Couples in secure relationships don't need to come on-line, even on their down time at work (I hope you are putting in a just effort for your wages) and defend their marriage on the internet. It's so silly, Kelly. There's more to the story than you are saying, I think.

Call it a feeling, but I don't think he's doing the same for you on Muslim boards.

Also, three years isn't that long. I've already had another women on here who was critical of me just like you were who was married to a Moroccan for three years and then it all went kaputt almost overnight. Then, she was back on here asking me for advice and telling her sad story.

Luigi has critisied me many times on this site, because he doesnt believe anyone can have a genuine relationship with a muslim man.

No, I just think that most of the good Muslim men date Muslim women. Can I not be more clear to you on here, Kelly?

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