Cheryl's New Information

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Jul 3, 2008 at 17:27

Cheryl, thanks so much for sharing, I realize it may not be the most comfortable thing to share this information with us on a blog.

Cheryl, just because you didn't come on here seeking approval, doesn't mean this is for real.

Quite honestly, there's some contradictory info here. A few days ago, you said your family feared the worst, and now they support you?

I personally don't approve of living together before marriage. I think it complicates things galore, is immoral and creates a lot of unnecessary courtroom squabbles. I do think it gives you an advantage in knowing about him, but the key thing is: a lot of men and women don't show their true nature until after a marriage.

Just because he's granted entry into your country doesn't mean jack. I knew of a girl who was supposedly raped three times by a man from France in the USA. We have a lot of issues here with women coming from Asia and Russia to marry American men, and are the visas screened? Yes! But why?

National security first. If that looks okay, hey, anything else is YOUR problem, Cheryl. Don't put too much trust in the government to detect a bogus relationship, okay? They ask tough Q's, but it doesn't always work, especially if the girl covers for him, and your inconsistency on here about familial testimony suggest you may lean that way.

I think it's great that your son's father is still a big part of his life.

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