I am DIGITALLY yours

Submitted by hisham zein (Egypt), Jul 5, 2008 at 18:42

have you heard it before, have you been watching your screen while sipping your coffee watching and reading word after word and admiring yourself that someone billions of galons of water away is in love with you while the guy next door may be in love with you but unnoticed ....

anyone of you who lets herself loose and let her feelings fly with the most colorful imagination of at last am in love with Mr.right or at last i found the love i have been waiting for then comes the moment of reality when you will try finding a closure to your grief that you may find but unfortunately with lots of scars ...

the internet is a perfect way for the world to become closer and its a perfect tool for trade, knowledge and a resource of almost everything but its not made to break hearts..we break our own hearts .

then after the brokenhearted heals and the guy next door gets noticed ..oh poor guy how will a broken hearted woman trust you ...you may be decent and honest but the ex lover was mean and opportunist that gave you no chance to capture her heart ....is that fair to really honest guys ...arent you all going to filter and sieve all relationships from now on ...arent your first reaction towards anyone who is sincerely wants to get closer is a total suspect of the real intentions ...hey decent guys of the world UNITE .....

ladies you were in love with your colorful screens ,your own selves ..there is no online love ..there is no online feelings .... in reality when you ask a question you see the reaction and hear the answer instantly but when you send a message the other tiger thinks then replies with a mean smile on his face ...easy catch dude ....

i really wonder with the absolute freedom you enjoy in the west why do you still feel lonely and missing love ...i know most men are busy with their careers but the world is full of real honest men maybe there is something i miss .

ladies when you go online dont open msn nor yahoo ..change your IDs make these tools just to communicate with friends and relatives because simply most PEOPLE do not say the reality ..their profiles are of saints ....we have millions of saints ....

then when you happen to manage to fly thousends of miles to see your dream expecting to be heartly welcome then and only then reality starts to reveal its dark side ...disappointed ..well ..you flew to the guy ...you believed him ...you gave him a ring but he never wears it ...you gave him money because his father is in intensive care ...he loves you because he introduced you to his family ...one even asked you to buy him a pair of jeans ..cheap guy .....

yesterday the public notary in cairo rejected notarizing 25 marriages between egyptian men and western women you know why .... women were in the average of 30 to 40 years older ...they asked women to get a letter of approval from their embassies ...imagine that !

from the other hand how many hundreds of western men got scammed by russian and ukranian prides ..sweethearts ...knockoffs ....go ahead blame it on christianity ....or at least the former communism lousy theory .

ladies i was brokenhearted long ago by an american woman ..have i blamed her religion ..no ..i blamed myself for being fool ... i will share it with you all to know the other way round ...believe it or not after 25 years the scars never healed ...ladies you really have a long way to go .

ladies please please please be rational ..realistic....webcams will do you no good ....will not lead you to the perfect match ..wake up please ...

am so sorry but the stories of women here really make me feel sorry for them ...

am sorry for being "talkative"

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