For: Proud Infidel from Spain

Submitted by cheryltaft@yahoo.com (United States), Jul 11, 2008 at 17:56

Hi there, I have stayed away from this blog because I am moving forward with my life after my "sweet talking, charmer" man did the same stuff to me...Only difference with my scoundrel, was that he said he was not Muslim...He stole my money, my heart and my future, with all of his lies...and now I can finally see him for what he truly is...and that is a Sociopath...

Proud Infidel from Spain, I hope your life improves soon, as no rotten, human being such as these mean, vicious, Moroccan men, deserves to rob you of your happiness. As I am...be glad it is over and you are alive. Those horrible excuses of human men from Morocco deserve their crappy lives in Morocco. What they do to unsuspecting, good women is unfathomable.

I feel bad for the many women who think that their "Moroccan men" are different...Because from where I sit...I see nothing but scum of the earth living in that country...My "wonderful, could do no wrong, Moroccan man", Said Quenjel from Khenifra/Taabit, was living the good life and leading me along for 2 years. While I was making plans for him to come to America and share my life, he was lying to me every day and telling me how honest he was, how I came first to him in his life, how he could be a jerk to others but never to me, how his happiness depended on my happiness, how my age (older than him of course) meant nothing to him...that money meant nothing to him, too...(of course not...it was NOT his money, but rather mine!)...He promised me the moon and I fell for it....

Why you ask? Am I stupid? Born yesterday? Hardly...I was an easy target because he violated me through my emotions, he saw my kind and generous heart...I was wonderful to him and his family. The money I spent on him was all going to be repaid to me in spades and then some...when he arrived here in the US...He told me that he would help me with landscaping my yard, cleaning my home, fixing it up, etc...But you see...the scam was that...He knew he wasn't coming...and he lead me to believe he was coming here and of the wonderful life we would have together when he got here...And he lied about going to the US Consulate and having his interviews.

He even told me the "questions the interviewer asked him....and how he was so kind and nice and how he wished us both good luck. He told me he was approved and it would take 2 to 3 months more to get his Visa...This was his mistake...I found that hard to believe as a Fiancée Visa is supposed to move along quicker...So when he told me that, I called on my Representative here in the states to help me with this matter. I went to Morocco in April and while I was there I got a phone call from the Representative's secretary.

She informed me that she heard back from the Consulate in Casablanca and they said he never showed up for his first Interview date back in March...nor did he show up for his second one in April...and that they did not have his Passport as he claimed they did. I confronted him about the phone call and the man insisted he did go there...I called back to the states the next day and they told me to tell him to get a receipt from the Consulate showing he had indeed gone there those 2 times and then to either fax or scan the document to the US Rep's office.

I went home and he assured me he would do that. Once I was home, he told me he had the receipt but conveniently could never find a computer with a cam or scanner to show me the paper or get it to me...and then the scam of his hospital visits, the hospital bills, how he got beaten up and robbed of the money I did send him... It wasn't just him telling me this stuff either....it was his accomplices' too...his friends, his family...you see....they were all in it together with him. Because they all lie, ladies...My guy just fooled me for a very long time...cuz I "loved" him and I "trusted" him cuz he told me he could never, ever, ever, hurt me...or do anything wrong to me. DUH!

Now that I am out of my emotional coma....I see the writing on the wall. But, you ladies who think your guys are different....try to look past your heart and see the truth for what it is. I know when you are emotionally involved with these men, your mind goes on vacation...They are very bright and know how to play with your emotions in ways you could never imagine.

And as far as human beings go....the ones I had the great misfortune to get to know, treated me like garbage when I was down and out. I was trying to put the pieces together to the puzzle and NOT ONE OF THE PEOPLE FROM THAT COUNTRY THAT I PLEADED WITH TO FIND OUT WHAT WAS GOING ON THERE....WOULD HELP ME....NOT ONE...THEY ALL SAID THEY WERE HELPING ME BUT NOT ONE OF THEM SHED LIGHT ON THE SUBJECT even when they saw me crying hysterically on my web cam.

In fact, a few of them actually tried pulling more scams on me while I was down and out...Can you imagine that? One of Said's friends named Mounir Oukazzi,even had the gall to ask me to pay for yet another hospital bill of Said's (just a few weeks ago) and said if I paid the $300 for Said, he would make sure Said would come online to speak with me.

Said Quenjel is the biggest wimp on the planet and he can't come online to face me because he is too busy doing this very same thing to another unsuspecting woman, somewhere else. You see ladies, we are their jobs....And if my ranting and raving here on this blog can help one poor woman see the light and be saved from the heartache and deceit that I have felt on every level of my being....then I will be able to sleep in peace. For it is my duty to spread the word about their little games that are causing great harm to the many who fall for their good looks and charm. Please...feel free to contact me and I can tell you lots more and offer my help. cheryltaft@yahoo.com

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