Anyone know anything about Pakistani men?

Submitted by justme (United States), Jul 15, 2008 at 22:59

I met a Pakistani man recently and we clicked from the get-go. He's very easy to talk to, calm, easy going, etc. I have really enjoyed talking to him and getting to know him. He is from Pakistan but he has a business in a different country. He is much younger than me.

I normally wouldn't even consider it but we seem to have the best connection, and I find myself missing him when I'm not talking to him. I don't know anything about the culture. Zero, zip, nada....lol I asked him about the age difference and he said he doesn't trust the younger ones anymore because they always cheat him. He just wants someone to care for him and he care for her, and they can love each other. He doesn't think a younger woman will do that. I guess he's had some bad experiences.

Anyway........he is asking me to move to another country to be with him. Not Pakistan, but where he has the business. He said there is no need to go to the USA or Pakistan. So if he isn't real, what would his motives be? I don't know. He seems very sincere and genuine. I didnt even want to start talking to him because of the age, but I finally relented and I'm glad I did. but I don't know if I want to take it any further, that's the thing. The thought of moving to another country sounds bizarre and crazy to me. I'm sure I will get a lot of advice on this one..... thanks

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