I gave him the divorce papers and this is what happened.....

Submitted by FARRAH (United States), Jul 19, 2008 at 17:33

So, after posting my message:I WILL BE STRONG I left the divorce papers on the table...

When I came home from work that day he was online w/his family...I said :so did you look at the papers?? He said first of all divorce is NOT an option...it would bring shame to him & his family and WORSE for me! He asked me how could I request this etc....then he simply said :Do you love me?? And of course I said yes. So that's it. We will make it work

. He said when he closes up, it's not forever and that's just how he deals w/things and that I should have tried to coddle him and coax the bad mood out of him...and maybe he's right.! He needed a little "babying"... My husband always gives me secrets on how men "think"...and he said when your man comes home just give them a happy greeting: Salaam Wa'llahkum...look pretty , don't give them hassles....that's it. So simple. Once again I am so happy for this blog but I will search in other topics as my opinions here are done. Thanks for the opportunity to share my life struggles with all of you. I will be fine.

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