Would some one please bait my man?

Submitted by km (Canada), Jul 28, 2008 at 23:10

Hello, my man is in the USA from the Green Card Lottery. i have been to see him twice and he came to see me for one month. He swears he loves me, however, I am suspicious because while here, I saw that he had chatted with many women on his MSN. He claims that that is all behind him now, and they were just games.

He has said to me, "Don't believe a word out of the mouth of someone still in Morocco. Even the King of Morocco wants out."

He has asked me to marry him, and we talk daily. He has agreed to sign a prenuptial agreement.

The reason i am suspicious is because he lied to me about being a virgin. Why he would lie is beyond me. He knows that I am not one. I came to find out that he had led a VERY active sex life. The whole, "Believe me, I can't let just any woman touch my body" got old real quick.

I do believe he loves me, but I need to know if he would cheat on me. He is 33, so anyone willing to bait him would have to be in this age group (I am 39) and very willing to say that they want children. This is my sticking point. I really don't want any more kids. So, i want to know if he is keeping his options open. I have a good story on how you got his email address, so he won't suspect us at all. Is anyone willing to help me?

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